Nic
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Re:Lost for words... - 2009/08/25 23:04
Hey Ang,
My heart breaks for you. I am with Hermie....time does start to heal the pain but that doessnt really help right now does it? Keep talking.. it does help. Grief counselling is also very helpful - just to have someone you dont know, and who is a professional, listen can be very beneficial.
I lost my Dad 5 months ago and to be honest there is not a day I dont ache to hear his voice. In the last week the stabbing pain I felt when I think of him has lessened. Maybe I have turned a corner...I am hoping. I no longer focus on his sickness but on the wonderful life he gave me, the laughs we shared and all the good times...and as crazy as it sounds I talk to him ( and you know what?? I swear he hears me!!)
No 2 people or time frames are the same. Go easy on yourself and try to be kind to yourself.
Keep talking and posting - You are not alone, everyone is here to help .
Big hug xxxx
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